Attract That Hot Guy You’ve Had Your Eye on in Four Steps

Published by in Humor
11th Oct 2011

So, you’re sitting in your little corner of the world, say in a restaurant, bar or some other kind of social get-together and in walks the most attractive man you’ve ever seen.  You have this inner craving that wants you to get to know him a bit better, but you’re not sure how to get his attention.  Here are a few simple ways to do that.

1.  Glance at him from time to time and he will eventually look you way, unless he’s just too absorbed in what he is doing.  Once he is looking at you, look him in the eyes and smile.  Then go back to whatever it is that you are doing.  Don’t stare.  A little later do it again.  This is the number one thing that attracts men, because this lets them know that you are interested and the smile gives them the courage to come talk to you.

Tip:  Make sure it’s a genuine smile.  It helps to remember a happy moment, or be at a social event that you are having a great time at.  This is why more people find their significant other when they are not really looking for someone and are just going out and doing stuff they enjoy, because people are attracted to those who are happy and having a good time.  (Guys take note:  This also applies to you as well.)

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2.  Not getting the hint?  Is there an empty seat next to him?  Or in front of him?  Take the initiative and ask him if the seat is taken, and if it’s not, if he minds if you have a seat.  All good so far?  Use what is happening around you to strike up a conversation, but don’t be negative about it.  Don’t complain or whine.  Is there a TV where you are?  Ask him what he thinks of the score of the game, or something on the news.  Ask him what he thinks of the music.  Be creative!  Just strike that conversation up!

3.  Relax!  A jittery, nervous woman is likely to be a turn off.  Take a few deep breaths before you approach him or he approaches you.  Know that you are a good-looking woman, and that this is a lucky fella to have attracted your attention.  Confidence is one of the biggest turn-ons, as long as it doesn’t get to the point of being conceited.  Know and accept that you have flaws, everyone does, and concentrate on your strengths.  What you like, what you can do well.  And concentrate on your target.  Remember, he’s probably just as nervous as you.

4.  Three’s a crowd.  He is less likely to approach you if you have a buddy hanging on your side, unless he happens to have a wing-man of his own.  I’m not saying ditch your girlfriend.  If you’re good friends with her, just explain what’s going on to her, that you’re trying to get that guy over there and you need to scout the area for a bit to see if he’ll approach you and you’ll meet back up with her in a bit.  She should understand.  If she’s not a good friend, just find excuses to be alone once in awhile, always meeting back up with her after a bit.

Don’t feel let down if he isn’t interested in you.  It may well be that he has a girlfriend somewhere, or he simply isn’t interested in finding a date at this point in time.  Is there another hottie in the room?  Move on to the next one if this one doesn’t turn out.  Happy hunting!