The first thing you need  to know is that you are on your very own right now. No more a dad or a mom to complain anything to. You need to get along with yourself most of the times. The government will not give you a cent or a finger to help you out.

Like you can see in the Lord Of The Rings 2 – The Two Towers: “No my Lord Aragon… We are alone…”

Some many things will be completely different from now on, you no longer have anyone to stop you from doing this or doing that, you no longer have a master, you are your own master, but with great power comes great responsibility.

You need to take care of yourself, you need to look after yourself, you need to make money all the time in order to pay for the food, the rent, the car, the fuel… and so many other things. You also need to keep always an eye on future jobs and career promotions.

Basically the job will become your life. No job, no life, literally.

Keeping a close eye on expenses will also become truly important if you want to live. You cannot spend money on futile things such as coffee, candies, cigarettes and many other bad things for you, your health and your wallet.

Living on your own will make you a completely new person overall. But keep in mind that living on your own, this sentence has it’s limits. If you go to the army you are not on your own. You have always someone to guide you. If you go to work to a job where the boss is your family or your friend, then you can be sure you are not on your own too.

By being 100% on your own I mean being 100% on your own on your LIFE and on your JOB too, maybe in your own BUSINESS.

You need to use more your brain and less your heart when it comes to make decisions. Making decisions will be the second most important part of your life. The right decision will take you to the right path. The wrong decision can take you to your death alley…

The right decision is the one that conforms with what you want and with what your goals are. The right decision for you can be the wrong decision for someone else and vice versa.

Keep in mind too that in order to live successfullly you need to be afraid of no one, you need to fear no one, you need to fear no threat and you need to feel some pain along the way.

Now that you are on your own you just feel which are the truly important things, how valuable time really is, and most of all who your friends truly are!

I am moving out of my parents home in three months, and out of my country too, 100% on my own.

I could say that only LIFE knows what the future will bring, but I am the one who makes my future, the one who walks is me.

And what about you? Still afraid to take the big step?