Is  he or she a stalker, Idiot, in love or just crazy you figure it out.

There are times to where you try to figure out if your companion is completely wacky.  When this happens we are pretty sure we may need to get as far as we can from that person. I have heard several stories throughout my life. I wonder if that person may have been an idiot, a stalker, in love, or just plain crazy.

A guy has been involved with a female in an one sided monogamous relationship.  Even though,it was a mutual decision only one of them has the desire to date others.  Let’s say she calls him and he had no intentions on spending time with her, but he has spoken with her on several times throughout that day.  She decides to go to his apartment unannounced. I found this one to be a terrible mistake, if I may say so myself. On arrival she finds him leaving.She tries to stop him but he doesn’t see her. Following him was not going in  her favor. Now the two of them are at some other females apartment.  Now you are really stupid because he goes inside and you are sitting outside in your car.  You now wait on him to come out.  Three hours later he comes out to go to the car with no shirt on. You rush out of your car start running towards him, asking for your apartment key back and throwing his belongings that are in your car to him.  He gives you your key and walks back into the house and slams the door.  You are left outside the apartment that is clearly being occupied by another female. The continual screams for about five minutes caused him to come back to the door and ask you to leave before the police arrived.  You still do not leave.Stalker, Idiot, in love, or just plain crazy, you figure it out.

A guy you just started dating a month ago has been calling your phone.  You are not trying to ignore him, you just do not feel like talking. Later that day a friend comes over that you attend school with to hang out for a while.  The two of you are sitting in your apartment watching a movie that was recommended by several of the individuals you both know.  Someone knocks on your door and it is obvious from your facial expression it came as a surprise to you.  You open the door.  That idiot came to your apartment unannounced.  Now you are angry at him not being invited, showing up on your door step at 10:00 that night.  So you say to him that he has to leave.  He sees that you have a visitor and looks angry immediately. He starts to cry and confess his love for you and his behavior and wants to talk but you do not think now is a perfect time.Stalker, Idiot, In love , or just plain crazy, you figure it out.

A female is absolutely in love with this guy she has been dating for a year now.  They are at a rocky section of the relationship.  He has not called or answered her calls for the last couple of days.  Her girlfriends influenced  her to believe he may be seeing someone else.  She decides to go over to his house and sit in the parking lot across the street on a Friday night to wait until he arrives home.When he does she sees him getting out of his car. Alone. He leaves his car running and you hope he may be hanging out with the guys tonight.  So she leaves.  The next day she tells her friends what happened, they laugh because they did not think she would actually play inspector gadget.Still know phone calls so she decides to do it again only this time she would wait until the following

morning. At 5:30a.m. shes watching this guys home from the same area. A hour goes by and still nothing.  The decision she came up with was to just leave. As soon as she started her engine he comes out side  and starts his car because it was a very cool morning. He goes back inside and comes out ten minutes later. Not alone.  With a female. Her heart is racing and also her thoughts.  Racing across the street to block his exit.  You do not make it in time but as he passes he turns his head from the thought of your sight. She tries turning around immediately to follow, but no luck.Are they a stalker, idiot, in love, or just plain crazy.

A female visits her boyfriend of six months and she noticed he seemed to be very upset.  When she asked him what was wrong he complained about a bill he needed to pay.  He explained to her it was a very difficult month for him and he needed some assistance.  She offered to pay the bill that was $623.00.  He was very thankful for this.  They did not stay together but spent two days out of the week together due to a heavy work load.  Five weeks had past and another bill had to be paid in full for the same amount.  Once again she agreed. The same pattern for the next several months.Until one day she asked what exactly was that amount of money for.  He told her it was his ordered child support payments. Are they a stalker, idiot, in love or just plain crazy.