1. Do you ever worry about whether or not your relationship will last?

a) No – if you split up, you split up. What’s the point in worrying?

b) Occasionally, but only when you’ve had problems.

c) Yes – you worry about it a reasonable amount.

2. Do you and your man have a lot in common – with similar interests, hobbies and/or jobs?

a) Yes, you make sure you do.

b) You have some things in common, but not everything.

c) No – you both have quite different careers and hobbies.

3. Do you think your relationship would be better if one or both of you had more money?

a) Yes, better by far.

b) Probably, but you wouldn’t bank on it.

c) No – money’s got very little to do with love.

4. Has your partner become less sexually attractive to you during the course of your relationship?

a) Yes, but it’s only natural.

b) It depends what sort of mood you’re in.

c) No – you fancy him just as much now as you always have.

5. Is your man your best friend as well as your lover?

a) Yes – and you couldn’t ask for a better one.

b) Sometimes he is, but you like to have a best friend outside your relationship for when he’s not.

c) No – your best friend is someone other than your partner.

6. How often have you or your man been unfaithful to each other?

a) Frequently.

b) Never.

c) Once.

7. Do you believe that a couple should be at roughly the same stage of their career success-wise for their relationship to last?

a) No – success at work shouldn’t affect personal relationships.

b) Yes – or the relationship could be unbalanced.

c) No – as long as you earn equal amounts of money, everything should work out OK.

8. If your man wants to go away for the weekend with his mates, how do you feel?

a) Put out: why does he prefer their company to yours?

b) Sad: you’ll be lonely without him.

c) Fine: you really don’t mind spending some time apart occasionally.

9. Do you or your man (or both of you) see less of your friends since you’ve been together?

a) No – you’ve both managed to keep up good social lives.

b) Yes, you spend practically all of your time together these days.